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Grit and Grace for All the Other Women in Your Man’s Life – 068

Your man has a lot of other women in his life who require attention and often demand his interaction. It could be his mom, coworkers, a daughter, an ex, friends, or a baby mama to name a few. If this relationship requires his attention, it might need yours too! Because we love our men, we want great relationships with them, but it’s impractical (and unhealthy!) to try to keep them all to ourselves. So, can you find the grit and grace to give him space to have healthy relationships with these women? Darlene and Julie share how to navigate all the other women in your man’s life without becoming the catty one no one wants to be around. They also discuss what it looks like and how to handle it when he gets a little too close to that lady who is not you. Listen now; your man will thank you if you navigate this well!

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“A man tells you who he is by what he does, we just don’t always want to believe him.” Dr. Zoe Shaw

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This Grit and Grace Life hosts, Darlene Brock and Julie Graham cross generational lines and draw from life experience to discuss all things life—from the boardroom to the bedroom, car-lines to college, being single, married or single again. Combining the two traits found in all women, grit and grace, they laugh, share insights and explore the road taken to find strength every day.

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